I’ve learned that there are many kinds of people. I think we all know that one person to be aware of is
A crab enjoys pulling others down back into the bucket, or if this crab is the one at the top of “the bucket” it pushes down on other “crabs.”
If a person is a crab they will talk about people’s weaknesses or mistakes as if they are all a disability that the person is trapped in … The way to spot a crab is by their discussion of others … DO THEY TALK ABOUT THE PERSON’S POTENTIAL OR THEIR FLAWS & MISTAKES ??? A crab talks about flaws & mistakes as being more powerful than any potential …
MORAL 1: Stay away from the crabs. and
MORAL 2: Treat the crab like you do a fly at a picnic. Swat it away and ignore it. If that doesn’t work, smash it with a fly swatter … lol… in other words, realize it has no power and its presence should not change your opinion of yourself or of others.