Take charge. Set the plans in motion. Invite her in. If she’s not with it, she’s not the one. Either she’s not ready for you OR she’s not into you,
A great woman, that is attracted to a man, LOVES when that man has put a plan together for a date. It shows that he is capable and willing to lead, and that she can sit back and enjoy being the lady.
With a great woman, she will reward you. *wink* in multiple ways. She should show appreciation, and return the favor with some comfortable nurturing and later when the time is right, her sexual reciprocity will speak for itself.
Do not settle for less than that in a woman.